When Reverend Awadiya Bulen laughs it is a full body
affair. Her white teeth flair and exude
joy against the backdrop of weathered, ebony skin. While her hair is simply pulled back, her
posture does not hesitate to lean in.
Her spoken Arabic is “tamaam” (perfect), her English is quite good, and of
course she speaks her mother tongue, Bari.
She can also read both in Arabic and English, a feat not accomplished by many
men in her own culture. She is a member
of the second graduating class of the Arabic track at Nile Theological College
(NTC) in Khartoum. She pastors a
growing church in Juba and helps with the Women’s Desk of the presbytery. This last Monday I invited Rev. Awadiya to
share with my Contextual Theology class, asking her four questions – What is it
like to be a woman in your culture? How
do you see God? Who is Jesus to
you? What does it mean that Jesus
saves?
Rev. Awadiya shares winsomely with our class!
In her book Mercy helps her reader get a fuller picture of
what life is like for the African woman.
She describes her context in Africa as one of struggle and
injustice. She describes how women are
taken for granted, marginalized, given secondary roles, blamed for what does
not go right, forced to implement decisions they did not make, and how they
struggle to have their humanity recognized as such (30). African women are programmed to live for
others (e.g. children, family) and they live to please men. She cites the proverb “There is no woman as
beautiful as the obedient one.” While
their world has been shaped by men, women have learned compassion and
solidarity. They are at the center of
self-giving on behalf of others; they hurt with those who hurt and rejoice with
those who rejoice (30). When the child
is in pain, he or she first runs to the mother.
Betty, one of the women Oduyoye interviews, uses such words as “subjugation,”
“powerlessness,” and “subservience” to describe the plight of African women,
realities which, from an anthropological and cultural level and even from a message
implicitly communicated by Western churches, prevent women from “fully
apprehending the truly good news that Jesus Christ’s coming has brought
especially for women” (56).
Rev. Awadiya does not hesitate to echo these macro themes
voiced by Oduyoye and to paint them in vivid, living colors. She described for us how she, like most
African women, only eats once all of the men and children have eaten, which
usually means that she does not eat (all the food is gone!). Being the wife of a prominent pastor in
Khartoum, their home was always filled with visitors, some of whom would live
with them for extended periods of time.
She told us how over the years they probably had fifty people live with
them at different times, many from different cultures and tongues. As the wife and mother, she was obliged to
cook and care for everyone staying in their home. At one point they were hosting four pregnant
women, each giving birth in rapid succession as Awadiya looked after them while being pregnant herself; a family member expressed concern that Awadiya
would lose her own child! Awadiya describes working so hard each day that her body would tremble
in the night and when her husband suggested she eat, she replied that she was
too tired to eat.
Students listen, react, and respond with thoughtful,
honest questions and comments
honest questions and comments
Although this description might feel like caricature, it is often the case that African men will sit under the tree
most of the day, talking with visitors, while women bear the brunt of all
domestic and child rearing activity. Awadiya even
contrasts how Arab women have it better than the Africans, “They work all day
but after 4pm they can relax with the family.” Rev. Awadiya’s husband died in 2014; she remains a
widow. Though she technically “belongs”
to the family of her husband, they have done nothing to look after her needs,
in fact, two of the brothers of her deceased husband now look to Awadiya to
support them, feeding them and conducting household responsibilities on their
behalf. If there is a death in the
family, as there recently was, Awadiya is obliged along with all the women of
the family to do all the cooking for the “bika” (wake) and mourning and burial
period. Practically speaking, what that recently
meant was she had to miss a workshop and she was not able to prepare herself for
visiting our class. Though Rev.
Adawadiya has lost her husband, she flashes an amazing grin and says, “Jesus is
my husband!” She says that some women
who still have their husbands are not as lucky as she is.
One of the significant images we looked at during our time
together is Jesus as liberator. A
principal hermeneutical key for African Women’s Christology, according to Oduyoye,
is the Magnificat, when the humble teenage Mary describes how God lifts up
the lowly and brings down the proud (Luke 1: 46 – 55). To strengthen this point of God lifting up
the lowly, we read a poem by Rachel Etrue Tetteh, describing her faith journey –
I heard of the Good News, now ours
Requiring men and women to hear, read and spread
The Gospel of what Jesus had done for humanity…
His ministry included women freed to make a choice
to follow Christ whose love
includes all men and women…
Daughters of Africa Arise (Tetteh 1990a: 229)
Requiring men and women to hear, read and spread
The Gospel of what Jesus had done for humanity…
His ministry included women freed to make a choice
to follow Christ whose love
includes all men and women…
Daughters of Africa Arise (Tetteh 1990a: 229)
Oduyoye surmises that ‘freed to choose’ serves as the
principal factor African women refer to when describing an encounter with the
Living Lord, Jesus Christ. “Jesus,”
Oduyoye writes, “is the antidote to [women’s] ascribed positions in church and society,
the cultural contexts in which they experience the Christ in their lives” (58). As one of my students commented, “things won’t
change overnight, but there is possibility for change.” Another student wonders, “How can we find compromise
between faith and culture?” In both
cases, whether it is slow change or compromise, African cultures will continue to
wrestle with this Jesus, the Liberator, the One who came to free all
persons and peoples at all times and in all places, including our dear sisters, the subjugated women
of Africa.
Daughters of Africa Arise.
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